That Special Lady and Dudettes

Dudes...lets discuss that Special Lady in your life or maybe you know a Dudette. Single dudes take note. What is it that makes them special and what makes a dudette? That Special one will let you be yourself. She will let you watch the game and even make you something to eat. A few will watch with you but know it is "Sacred" time. They ask questions to show interest but really they are interested in the guy in tight pants.

The Special Lady will support you and your endeavours, as crazy as they may be. She will be your muse and pillar of support, cherish that!  She lates you have guys night and knows you will come home to her. Why? Because she knows you need your time. She will call you out when it gets too insane, listen to her. She often is the voice of reason.

Now here is where the work starts...She will expect the same treatment in return. Let her have her time, but be there for her when it all goes wrong. Even if it doesn't seem like the world is ending to you, it is to her!
But...this is a big BUT...never offer the male answers or solutions. The oil of emotion does not mix well with the water of logic. Hold her and tell her you understand, even if you really don't. One more secret...compliment her often! Notice her hair or new outfit. Might get you lucky later...

Dudettes....these are some special women. I know a few.  They embody the typical womanhood traits discussed above but with a few exceptions....

1. They really love sports. Probably know more than you and do not miss any games, even to go shopping.
2. Dudettes will tell you exactly what they want and when!
3. They handle their own business and are tough. But they will let their emotions through...handle them carefully
4. They take care of themselves for themselves....compliment them anyway!
5. dudettes will be your best buddy and if you are lucky the most fantastic lover.

Again I am foiled in my review of Gladiator. Came home to find Rudy on CMT. Who does not like this movie? Based on the true story of "Rudy" Ruettiger. It is a true underdog/ dream come true movie. Heck you can't beat a story with football, especially Notre Dame football. The scenes shot at the campus really show off how inspiring the place is. Heck I had the same reaction the first time I was there as Ned Beatty/Daniel Ruettiger Sr. did when he got off the bus to see the game. Definitely a must see if you haven't or watch it again if you need a little attitude adjustment.

Oh and here is the real Rudy's site.... http://rudyinternational.com/ 

You and Your Dewey Cox

I was going to do a Dude review of Gladiator (the greatest dude movie) but walk Hard came on last night and I was compelled to watch... Not the best but I laughed pretty damn good. The songs were great, hilarious even! Especially the duet with Jenna Fischer (she makes my cute/hot list) The cameos helped make the movie.
Not on my must buy list but worth watching if its free.

Lets discuss Dudettes....
Yup I said it...ladies can be dudettes... Just like dudes, it is all in the attitude. There needs to be a cute factor to it, a strength outside and inside, a sense of humor, and the ability to hang to the dude credo....lift, eat, drink, and bang. So ladies if you got what it takes sign up!

Speaking more of the ladies...we have to have a daily dudette or hot chick anyway...

I present the Monique Minton...

http://momofitness.com/
http://contest.bodybuilding.com/bio/66792/
http://www.myspace.com/moniquefanpage














Well I am going to abide for now....

The Dude Abides

So I watched The Big Lebowski last night. Decided it was a perfect way to sum up what this blog is about...Being a Dude.
1....Do it your way. Do not compromise because the world wants you to.
2....Your friends might fucker it all up, but they are your friends. They will probably
help you move too.
3....Do what you want with passion. Remember it is just a game after all.
4....Have a signature. Wear a robe or tux or kilt, make it define you!
5....Keep it simple and uncomplicated. White Russians are easy.
6....Last but not least....HAVE A PAIR OF TESTICLES!!!


So is it that simple? Yes it is. There are a few extras that could be thrown in for my dudes...
Lift big, Eat big, Drink hard, Love hard (or Fornicate well)


My goal is to throw out there waht dudes like and need. Movies, music, women, exercise...Oh yeah lets not forget food and drink!
I am open for suggestions or even to try something out for the good of dudedom. Comment or email me if you know or have something interesting to put up. Also feel free to share your dude experiences....

Dude is abiding.

A New Adventure...

Long time ago somewhere in this galaxy while contemplating a pint of Guinness I came to the conclusion that Dudes just are.
I am offering this blog for all Dudes, oh and Dudettes, to find what it takes to be a Dude...