That Special Lady and Dudettes

Dudes...lets discuss that Special Lady in your life or maybe you know a Dudette. Single dudes take note. What is it that makes them special and what makes a dudette? That Special one will let you be yourself. She will let you watch the game and even make you something to eat. A few will watch with you but know it is "Sacred" time. They ask questions to show interest but really they are interested in the guy in tight pants.

The Special Lady will support you and your endeavours, as crazy as they may be. She will be your muse and pillar of support, cherish that!  She lates you have guys night and knows you will come home to her. Why? Because she knows you need your time. She will call you out when it gets too insane, listen to her. She often is the voice of reason.

Now here is where the work starts...She will expect the same treatment in return. Let her have her time, but be there for her when it all goes wrong. Even if it doesn't seem like the world is ending to you, it is to her!
But...this is a big BUT...never offer the male answers or solutions. The oil of emotion does not mix well with the water of logic. Hold her and tell her you understand, even if you really don't. One more secret...compliment her often! Notice her hair or new outfit. Might get you lucky later...

Dudettes....these are some special women. I know a few.  They embody the typical womanhood traits discussed above but with a few exceptions....

1. They really love sports. Probably know more than you and do not miss any games, even to go shopping.
2. Dudettes will tell you exactly what they want and when!
3. They handle their own business and are tough. But they will let their emotions through...handle them carefully
4. They take care of themselves for themselves....compliment them anyway!
5. dudettes will be your best buddy and if you are lucky the most fantastic lover.

Again I am foiled in my review of Gladiator. Came home to find Rudy on CMT. Who does not like this movie? Based on the true story of "Rudy" Ruettiger. It is a true underdog/ dream come true movie. Heck you can't beat a story with football, especially Notre Dame football. The scenes shot at the campus really show off how inspiring the place is. Heck I had the same reaction the first time I was there as Ned Beatty/Daniel Ruettiger Sr. did when he got off the bus to see the game. Definitely a must see if you haven't or watch it again if you need a little attitude adjustment.

Oh and here is the real Rudy's site.... http://rudyinternational.com/